{"id":3049,"date":"2021-11-20T12:44:49","date_gmt":"2021-11-20T12:44:49","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/karma-klub.com\/?p=3049"},"modified":"2021-11-20T14:52:08","modified_gmt":"2021-11-20T14:52:08","slug":"otisky-vlastneho-porodu","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/karma-klub.com\/sk\/otisky-vlastneho-porodu\/","title":{"rendered":"Otisky vlastn\u00e9ho p\u00f4rodu"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Nevedela som, \u010do m\u00e1m \u010daka\u0165, no n\u00e1zov trojdenn\u00e9ho transforma\u010dno-integra\u010dn\u00e9ho procesu zaujal. Presk\u00faman\u00edm prvotn\u00fdch otiskov odch\u00e1dzame s nov\u00fdm poh\u013eadom na to, \u010do sa vlastne vtedy stalo. Nemyslelo sa t\u00fdm pozrie\u0165 sa na mechanick\u00fd priebeh p\u00f4rodu, ale na to, ak\u00fdm sp\u00f4sobom to ovplyvnilo na\u0161e chovanie v dospelosti.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201eLen aby to nebola nejak\u00e1 ezo-se\u00e1nsa,\u201c varoval ma striktne racion\u00e1lne uva\u017euj\u00faci brat so zo\u0161p\u00falenou perou. \u0164a\u017eko poveda\u0165. Neviem doteraz celkom \u201eracion\u00e1lne\u201c vysvetli\u0165, \u010do presne sa so mnou po\u010das tejto sk\u00fasenosti stalo. No m\u00f4\u017eem ju bezpe\u010dne zaradi\u0165 medzi z\u00e1\u017eitky, ktor\u00e9 m\u00f4j \u017eivot a ch\u00e1panie seba samej rozdelili na obdobie \u201epred a po.\u201c<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"768\" src=\"https:\/\/karma-klub.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/kat-01.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-3050\" srcset=\"https:\/\/karma-klub.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/kat-01.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/karma-klub.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/kat-01-300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/karma-klub.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/kat-01-768x576.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>\u010co sa stalo?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p id=\"viewer-4c343\">V\u0161etko sa trocha oto\u010dilo hore-nohami a postupne objasnilo. Nie\u010do hne\u010f a niektor\u00e9 uvedomenia sa \u201ezaintegrovali\u201c do m\u00f4jho vn\u00edmania, ch\u00e1pania a ultim\u00e1tne spr\u00e1vania a\u017e o nieko\u013eko dn\u00ed a\u017e t\u00fd\u017ed\u0148ov. V\u0161etko si postupne sadalo a mnoh\u00e9 s\u00favislosti za\u010dali do seba zapada\u0165 ako k\u00fasky lega. K t\u00fdm najv\u00e4\u010d\u0161\u00edm a bezprostredn\u00fdm zmen\u00e1m azda po\u010d\u00edtam do\u010dasn\u00e9 ukon\u010denie bo\u013eav\u00e9ho rozchodu a odblokovanie ve\u013emi zakorenen\u00e9ho strachu ma\u0165 vlastn\u00e9 deti. No tie\u017e napr\u00edklad aj fakt, \u017ee som sa prestala r\u00fdpa\u0165 v nose na verejnosti.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p id=\"viewer-9srpo\">Uuups. Nem\u00f4\u017eem uveri\u0165, \u017ee som to pr\u00e1ve nap\u00edsala do \u010dasopisu, ale zd\u00e1 sa mi to pre v\u00fdpovedn\u00fa hodnotu tohoto \u010dl\u00e1nku d\u00f4le\u017eitej\u0161ie ne\u017e skuto\u010dnos\u0165, \u017ee to je brut\u00e1lne hnusn\u00e9.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p id=\"viewer-cbhg6\">\u010co to teda je, transforma\u010dn\u00fd workshop zameran\u00fd na otisky vlastn\u00e9ho p\u00f4rodu?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p id=\"viewer-644g\">\u201eV\u0161etko, \u010do sa stane po\u010das p\u00f4rodu, ovplyv\u0148uje cel\u00fd n\u00e1\u0161 \u017eivot. Ako sa vyv\u00edjame a ako sa nesk\u00f4r v \u017eivote chov\u00e1me,\u201c hovor\u00ed vo \u0160vaj\u010diarsku \u017eij\u00faci Ameri\u010dan Jullian Gustavson, ktor\u00fd u\u017e desiatky rokov \u0161tuduje prenat\u00e1lne a p\u00f4rodn\u00e9 trauma.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p id=\"viewer-2t38d\">Pod\u013ea priekopn\u00edkov modern\u00e9ho prenat\u00e1lneho vzdel\u00e1vania Dr. Williama Emersona a Dr. Karltona Terryho, u ktor\u00fdch Jullian p\u00f4sobil ako asistent, s\u00fa<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p id=\"viewer-5d8ho\">prim\u00e1rne traumy \u010dasto p\u00f4vodom na\u0161eho utrpenia a z ve\u013ekej vet\u0161iny tvoria n\u00e1\u0161 charakter.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p id=\"viewer-4gncc\">\u201eTento pr\u00edstup n\u00e1m umo\u017en\u00ed integrova\u0165 sk\u00fasenos\u0165, ktor\u00e1 nikdy spracovan\u00e1 nebola a prinesie n\u00e1m \u010derstv\u00fd poh\u013ead na vlastn\u00fa hodnotu,\u201c vysvet\u013euje Jullian. \u201eMo\u017eno dokonca budeme schopn\u00ed vzda\u0165 sa svojho mechanizmu boja o pre\u017eitie, pr\u00edli\u0161nej prisp\u00f4sobivosti, alebo len nezdrav\u00fdch zvykov, ktor\u00e9 m\u00e1me ako dospel\u00ed.\u201c<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p id=\"viewer-48ac2\">Jullian teda zameral cel\u00fa svoju terapeutick\u00fa prax na d\u00f4le\u017eitos\u0165 okolnost\u00ed zrodenia a p\u00f4rodu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p id=\"viewer-93ap2\"><strong>Na\u0161e narodenie, traumy a in\u00e9 tabu<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p id=\"viewer-42j6s\">Mnoho \u013eud\u00ed je k pr\u00e1ci s p\u00f4rodom pri\u0165ahovan\u00fdch, preto\u017ee maj\u00fa pocit, \u017ee je v nich nie\u010do, \u010do sa m\u00f4\u017eu k t\u00e9me \u201ekto som\u201c dozvedie\u0165. Narodenie je pre mnoh\u00fdch \u013eud\u00ed kontorvezn\u00e1 t\u00e9ma. \u201ePre t\u00fdch, ktor\u00ed s\u00fa na to pripraven\u00ed, m\u00f4\u017ee by\u0165 t\u00e1to myst\u00e9ria zauj\u00edmav\u00e1, dokonca pr\u00ed\u0165a\u017eliv\u00e1. Pre in\u00fdch, naopak, je vlastn\u00fd p\u00f4rod neatrakt\u00edvne tabu, pravdepodobne z dobr\u00e9ho d\u00f4vodu, a preto pre nich na\u010falej tabu i ostane,\u201c usmieva sa Jullian. \u201eVer\u00edm, \u017ee ka\u017ed\u00fd trp\u00ed na \u00fa\u010dinok zvy\u0161kov nevyrie\u0161en\u00fdch osobn\u00fdch a rodinn\u00fdch zranen\u00ed z obdobia okolo n\u00e1\u0161ho zrodenia,\u201c dod\u00e1va.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p id=\"viewer-7idh3\">Od roku 1999 priniesol BirthWork do Franc\u00fazska, Belgicka, Nemecka, \u0160vaj\u010diarska, Anglicka, Chorv\u00e1tska, Po\u013eska, do \u010ceska a USA. \u201eZvy\u010dajne chod\u00edm tam, odkia\u013e dostanem pozvanie a kde s\u00fa \u013eudia otvoren\u00ed zmen\u00e1m,\u201c hovor\u00ed o svojej pr\u00e1ci.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p id=\"viewer-a6o5b\">V mojej skupinke n\u00e1s bolo spolu asi 23. Viedol ju s pomocn\u00fdm t\u00edmom troch \u013eud\u00ed z Prahy.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p id=\"viewer-edkmk\">\u201eSk\u00fasenosti s\u00fa z\u00e1sadn\u00fd podklad pre \u013eudsk\u00e9 spr\u00e1vanie. Na\u0161e pre\u017eitky v n\u00e1s zanech\u00e1vaj\u00fa otisky, ktor\u00e9 si v sebe nos\u00edme \u2013 ak\u00e9si \u0161abl\u00f3ny, pod\u013ea ktor\u00fdch jedn\u00e1me vedome \u010di nevedome.\u201c Tieto otisky maj\u00fa pod\u013ea Julliana obrovsk\u00fd vplyv na to, ako prech\u00e1dzame okam\u017eikmi, ktor\u00e9 predstavuj\u00fa najv\u00e4\u010d\u0161ie \u201eprechody\u201c a zmeny v \u017eivote. \u201eAk nem\u00e1me spracovan\u00fa p\u00f4rodn\u00fa traumu, br\u00e1ni n\u00e1m to v tom, aby sme tieto okam\u017eiky prech\u00e1dzali slobodne a kreat\u00edvne,\u201c vysvet\u013euje Jullian, \u201em\u00f4\u017eeme napr\u00edklad v niektor\u00fdch situ\u00e1ciach osta\u0165 zaseknut\u00ed.\u201c<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"676\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/karma-klub.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/kat-02-676x1024.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-3052\" srcset=\"https:\/\/karma-klub.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/kat-02-676x1024.jpg 676w, https:\/\/karma-klub.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/kat-02-198x300.jpg 198w, https:\/\/karma-klub.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/kat-02-768x1163.jpg 768w, https:\/\/karma-klub.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/kat-02.jpg 835w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 676px) 100vw, 676px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Cesta sem a pupo\u010dn\u00e1 \u0161n\u00fara<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Just birds<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p id=\"viewer-cgr4t\">Jullian chcel vedie\u0165 hne\u010f v \u00favode, ak\u00e1 bola na\u0161a cesta na jeho semin\u00e1r, len aby sme si na jeho konci v\u0161imli s\u00favislosti \u2013 vzorce v chovan\u00ed, ktor\u00e9 opakujeme v podstate cel\u00fd \u017eivot. Napr\u00edklad chodenie pred\u010dasne, alebo rie\u0161enie vec\u00ed ok\u013eukou&#8230; Ka\u017ed\u00e9ho individu\u00e1lny pr\u00edbeh bol celkom unik\u00e1tny.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p id=\"viewer-87mnd\">Ja som pri\u0161la neskoro. Ako takmer v\u017edy a v\u0161ade. Tie\u017e to malo v\u00fdznam, ktor\u00fd mi docvakol u\u017e o p\u00e1r dn\u00ed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p id=\"viewer-aucbb\">\u201e\u010co t\u00e1 pupo\u010dn\u00e1 \u0161n\u00fara okolo krku?\u201c sp\u00fdtal sa jemne Jullian diev\u010diny s obrovskou \u0161atkou, ktor\u00fa skoro neust\u00e1le nosila. \u010co\u017ee? Hovorila som si v duchu so zdvihnut\u00fdm obo\u010d\u00edm. Keby toto niekto po\u010dul&#8230;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p id=\"viewer-2j7t6\">Z jej rozpr\u00e1vania v\u0161ak nesk\u00f4r vysvitlo, \u017ee o svojom p\u00f4rode od rodi\u010dov vie, \u017ee sa narodila skuto\u010dne pridusen\u00e1, cis\u00e1rskym rezom, s pupo\u010dnou \u0161n\u00farou okolo krku. Postupne sa po\u010das \u010fal\u0161\u00edch dn\u00ed pri pr\u00e1ci v skupine odha\u013eovalo, ako sa jej prvotn\u00fd \u0161ok pri tomto pohotovostnom vytiahnut\u00ed z maternice reflektoval v \u017eivote ako pretrv\u00e1vaj\u00faci pocit nemoh\u00facnosti. Ak\u00e9si ustavi\u010dn\u00e9 spoliehanie sa na druh\u00fdch, aby ju \u201evytiahli\u201c z probl\u00e9mov.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p id=\"viewer-7810l\">N\u00e1hoda&#8230; hovor\u00edm si.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p id=\"viewer-9gs1t\">T\u00fdch n\u00e1hod v\u0161ak prib\u00fadalo. Prv\u00fd de\u0148 som len \u201e\u010dumela\u201c. Na to, ako si ka\u017ed\u00fd z n\u00e1s relat\u00edvne r\u00fdchlo dostal akoby mimovo\u013ene do ur\u010ditej polohy po kr\u00e1tkych rozhovoroch s Jullianom. Nie ka\u017ed\u00fd hovoril ve\u013ea.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p id=\"viewer-bo8lu\">M\u00f4j mozog i\u0161iel prv\u00e9 dva dni na pln\u00e9 obr\u00e1tky k\u00fdm <em>zd\u00f4vod\u0148oval<\/em> ako bl\u00e1zon, aby pochopil to, \u010do sa mi odohr\u00e1valo pred o\u010dami, nau\u010denou logikov sp\u00e1jania si s\u00favislost\u00ed ako najlep\u0161ie vedel.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p id=\"viewer-cpjkd\">\u201eNarodenie sa neust\u00e1le v na\u0161ich \u017eivotoch prejavuje, sta\u010d\u00ed by\u0165 recept\u00edvny a prij\u00edma\u0165 inform\u00e1cie, ktor\u00e9 sa n\u00e1m odha\u013euj\u00fa prostredn\u00edctvom tela &#8211; to znamen\u00e1 v gest\u00e1ch, znakoch a sign\u00e1loch. V rodnom jazyku, dokonca v sp\u00f4sobe ako dr\u017e\u00edme telo a tak \u010falej,\u201c hovor\u00ed Jullian, ktor\u00fd pod\u013ea slov jeho pomocn\u00edka Jakuba Moulisa, \u0161tuduje cel\u00e9 hodiny nahr\u00e1vky \u013eud\u00ed, s ktor\u00fdmi pracuje. Sleduje ich individu\u00e1lne pr\u00edbehy, no najm\u00e4 \u010d\u00edta ich re\u010d tela&#8230;a h\u013ead\u00e1 s\u00favislosti.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p id=\"viewer-b9mbb\">Ni\u010d z tohoto som pred jeho workshopom nevedela \u2013 a ani som na to pr\u00edli\u0161 nedbala. Zaujal ma kontroverzn\u00fd n\u00e1zov a bola som zvedav\u00e1.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p id=\"viewer-2s0uk\">Aj ke\u010f sme sa na za\u010diatku venovali \u0161t\u00fadiu typu paniev, f\u00e1z p\u00f4rodu a v\u0161etk\u00e9mu, \u010do sa m\u00f4\u017ee prihodi\u0165, domnievam sa, \u017ee sa ka\u017ed\u00e9mu \u00fa\u010dastn\u00edkovi tohoto neuverite\u013en\u00e9ho \u201ez\u00e1jazdu\u201c najviac zap\u00edsal jeho osobn\u00fd pre\u017eitok. Op\u00e4tovn\u00e9 intuit\u00edvne za\u017eitie ur\u010ditej \u010dasti vlastn\u00e9ho p\u00f4rodu. S pomocou n\u00e1s v\u0161etk\u00fdch. Verte-neverte.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Spomienky s\u00fa v bunk\u00e1ch<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p id=\"viewer-fg2tf\">Pod\u013ea Jullianovej met\u00f3dy si telo p\u00f4rod pam\u00e4t\u00e1 skrz bune\u010dn\u00fa pam\u00e4\u0165 a na\u0161e tel\u00e1 cez tento pre\u017eitok dok\u00e1\u017eu odhali\u0165, kedy a ako \u010dasto tento \u201epr\u00edbeh\u201c znova a zas rozpr\u00e1vaj\u00fa.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p id=\"viewer-4inkg\">\u201eNiektor\u00e9 deti m\u00f4\u017eu trpie\u0165 nedostatkom kysl\u00edka v d\u00f4sledku zhutnenej pupo\u010dnej \u0161n\u00fary a niekedy je potrebn\u00e9 ich znova o\u017eivi\u0165,\u201c hovor\u00ed Jullian. \u201eNarodenie je traumatick\u00e9 a deti sa pri \u0148om zrania. Nielen\u017ee s\u00fa deti na\u017eive a s\u00fa c\u00edtiacimi bytos\u0165ami u\u017e pred naroden\u00edm, ale c\u00edtia boles\u0165 a v\u0161etko, \u010do c\u00edti ich mama na r\u00f4znych \u00farovniach. Toto u\u017e nie s\u00fa m\u00fdty, ktor\u00e9 sa daj\u00fa vyvr\u00e1ti\u0165. Spomienka na tento z\u00e1\u017eitok sa somaticky uchov\u00e1va, aj ke\u010f je die\u0165a v bezvedom\u00ed. T\u00e1to spomienka nie je uchovan\u00e1 v pam\u00e4ti ako abeceda. Je to spomienka, ktor\u00e1 nie je chybn\u00e1, nie je prerozpr\u00e1van\u00e1 alebo znova vyvolan\u00e1 mozgom. Je <em>stelesnen\u00e1<\/em> v na\u0161om tele, kde sa m\u00f4\u017ee jeho prostredn\u00edctvom zase prejavi\u0165.\u201c<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Spomienky s\u00fa predsa skreslen\u00e9&#8230;<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p id=\"viewer-eakho\">\u201eAko je to mo\u017en\u00e9,\u201c kr\u00fatil hlavou m\u00f4j brat, \u201eke\u010f predsa vieme z r\u00f4znych experimentov, \u017ee ke\u010f po\u017eiadame \u013eud\u00ed o podrobnosti nejakej udalosti spred troch rokov, troch mesiacov, \u010di troch dn\u00ed bezprostredne po nej, poskytn\u00fa n\u00e1m \u00faplne odli\u0161n\u00fd opis tej istej udalosti? Je nemo\u017en\u00e9 spo\u013eahn\u00fa\u0165 sa na niekoho spomienky, ke\u010f vieme, \u017ee bud\u00fa skr\u00e1tka chybn\u00e9&#8230;\u201c<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p id=\"viewer-41r3i\">Jullian s\u00fahlas\u00ed, \u017ee sa nem\u00f4\u017eeme spolieha\u0165 na v\u00fdslovn\u00fa alebo deklarat\u00edvnu pam\u00e4\u0165, ktor\u00e1 je omyln\u00e1 a men\u00ed sa pri ka\u017edom rozpr\u00e1van\u00ed pr\u00edbehu. Je to v\u0161ak pod\u013ea neho ako porovn\u00e1va\u0165 jablk\u00e1 s pomaran\u010dami. \u201e\u010eal\u0161\u00edm typom pam\u00e4te je implicitn\u00e1 pam\u00e4\u0165,\u201c hovor\u00ed Jullian. Je to nau\u010den\u00e1 pam\u00e4\u0165 a existuje zv\u00e4\u010d\u0161a v bezvedom\u00ed. Pam\u00e4\u0165 uchov\u00e1van\u00e1 v membr\u00e1ne bunky, kt\u00f3rej existenciu veda len ned\u00e1vno za\u010dala predpoklada\u0165, je ak\u00fdmsi \u201emozgom\u201c bunky. V\u0161etky na\u0161e prvotn\u00e9 sk\u00fasenosti s\u00fa tie najcitlivej\u0161ie, a preto si ich na\u0161e telo pam\u00e4t\u00e1 (ako bezpe\u010dn\u00e9 alebo nebezpe\u010dn\u00e9) a je mo\u017en\u00e9 si ich pripomen\u00fa\u0165 v\u017edy, ke\u010f n\u00e1m ich znova \u201epripomenie\u201c prostredie, my\u0161lienka, v\u00f4\u0148a alebo ak\u00e1ko\u013evek situ\u00e1cia.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p id=\"viewer-e4mb0\">\u201eV\u0161etci sme za\u010d\u00ednali ako jedna \u010di dve bunky a r\u00e1stli exponenci\u00e1lne v prostrediach, ktor\u00e9 boli pre bunku bu\u010f bezpe\u010dn\u00e9 alebo nebezpe\u010dn\u00e9, a zodpovedaj\u00facim sp\u00f4sobom reagovali tak, \u017ee sme sa pohybovali smerom k nim alebo pre\u010d od nich,\u201c hovor\u00ed Jullian. Bunkov\u00e1 membr\u00e1na je cytoplazmatick\u00fd ekvivalent mozgu. Bunka si zachov\u00e1va odtla\u010dok \u017eivotn\u00e9ho prostredia a toho, \u010do sa tam stalo. \u201eV oblasti fenomenol\u00f3gie, bunkovej biol\u00f3gie a psychofyziol\u00f3gie je toho zap\u00edsan\u00e9 ve\u013ea, \u010do ma vedie k presved\u010deniu, \u017ee na\u0161e prv\u00e9 dojmy s\u00fa hlboko zakorenen\u00e9 a trval\u00e9,\u201c opisuje svoju pr\u00e1cu. BirthWork tr\u00e9ning obsahuje rozsiahly st\u00e1le sa roz\u0161iruj\u00faci arch\u00edv \u010dl\u00e1nkov a literat\u00fary t\u00fdkaj\u00facej sa tohto predmetu. \u201eNem\u00e1m \u017eiadnu overovaciu met\u00f3du, ale ani sa k \u017eiadnej neprikl\u00e1\u0148am. Pravda o tom, \u010do sa stalo, spo\u010d\u00edva na pozorovate\u013eovi. Ten, kto to poc\u00edti, to vie,\u201d hovor\u00ed Jullian.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Dovolenie a hranice<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p id=\"viewer-6j5l7\">Nahr\u00e1vali sme sa po\u010das cel\u00e9ho procesu na video \u2013 samozrejme len ke\u010f sme individu\u00e1lne nat\u00e1\u010danie dovolili. Dovolenie si p\u00fdtal ka\u017ed\u00fd od ka\u017ed\u00e9ho \u2013 a na v\u0161etko. Bolo to jedno z pravidiel, ktor\u00e9 zaru\u010dilo, \u017ee sme sa c\u00edtili bezpe\u010dne a dok\u00e1zali sa jeden pred druh\u00fdm otvori\u0165, aj ke\u010f sme sa paradoxne nikdy predt\u00fdm nevideli. T\u00e1to met\u00f3da nielen ve\u013ea \u013eudom zvedomila, ako \u010dasto sa v \u017eivote nep\u00fdtaj\u00fa svojich bl\u00edzkych o dovolenie na nich vysypa\u0165 svoje pocity, \u010di v\u00fd\u010ditky a po\u017eiadavky&#8230; ale aj obr\u00e1tene \u2013 n\u00e1s sam\u00fdch sa v\u017edy ka\u017ed\u00fd nep\u00fdta: \u201em\u00f4\u017eem s tebou nie\u010do zdie\u013ea\u0165? M\u00f4\u017eem sa ti otvori\u0165?\u201c predt\u00fdm, ne\u017e to na n\u00e1s \u201evybal\u00ed\u201c. Nastavovanie a prekra\u010dovanie vlastn\u00fdch a cudz\u00edch hran\u00edc bola t\u00e9ma samou o sebe a viacer\u00ed z n\u00e1s sme si uvedomili, ako na tom sme. Tu, v tomto kruhu, sa hranice re\u0161pektovali. A fugovalo to osvie\u017euj\u00faco. Vytvorilo to pocit bezpe\u010dia a d\u00f4very s celkom cudz\u00edmi \u013eu\u010fmi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p id=\"viewer-25hg3\">Na tret\u00ed de\u0148 som za\u010dala s \u013eu\u010fmi skuto\u010dne s\u00faciti\u0165. A takmer ka\u017ed\u00fd jeden pr\u00edpad odrazu so mnou rezonoval.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p id=\"viewer-3u33a\">Cel\u00fd \u010das som sa p\u00fdtala, ako je to <em>logicky<\/em> mo\u017en\u00e9, ke\u010f som sledovala s gu\u010dou v hrdle procesy ostatn\u00fdch a pri niektor\u00fdch sa mi po l\u00edcach nezadr\u017eate\u013ene valili slzy.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p id=\"viewer-56ags\">\u00daplne som v\u0161ak kone\u010dne pochopila, pre\u010do som vlastne tam. A tie\u017e o \u010do ide, a\u017e ke\u010f som pri\u0161la sama na radu medzi posledn\u00fdmi. Stala som tak svedkom toho, \u010do Jullian naz\u00fdva \u201evlastnou zranite\u013enos\u0165ou\u201c. Na opisovanie svojho pr\u00edpadu tu nie je miesto. Veci, ktor\u00e9 vypl\u00e1vali na povrch ma sam\u00fa prekvapili. Ako aj skuto\u010dnos\u0165, \u017ee som za\u017eila na konci svojho \u201eznovuzrodenia\u201c \u010dosi fyzick\u00e9. A nielen ja. Vzalo mi to re\u010d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p id=\"viewer-d87af\">Nahr\u00e1vku o tom, \u010do sa so mnou stalo, st\u00e1le m\u00e1m. Ale neopov\u00e1\u017eim sa zatia\u013e na \u0148u pozrie\u0165.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p id=\"viewer-348it\">\u201eJa som sa odv\u00e1\u017eil pozrie\u0165 na svoju a\u017e po dvoch rokoch,\u201c zd\u00f4veril sa Jakub Moulis, ktor\u00fd je s\u00fa\u010das\u0165ou Jullianovho t\u00edmu a dnes sa s\u00e1m venuje p\u00f4rodn\u00fdm otiskom. \u201eA po tak dlhom \u010dase som tomu nemohol uveri\u0165, ko\u013eko vec\u00ed som t\u00fdmto pre\u017eitkom pochopil a postupne aj zmenil. A nebolo to v\u017edy jednoduch\u00e9,\u201c dop\u013a\u0148a.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong><br>Sp\u00e4\u0165 do zranite\u013enosti<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p id=\"viewer-caedb\">\u201eNiektor\u00e9 skuto\u010dnosti t\u00fdkaj\u00face sa n\u00e1\u0161ho narodenia a t\u00fdm, k\u00fdm sa ako \u013eudia st\u00e1vame, s\u00fa nev\u00edtan\u00e9, nechcen\u00e9, neakceptovan\u00e9 alebo nemilovan\u00e9,\u201c hovor\u00ed Jullian. \u201eNa\u0161e odhalienie sa svetu sprev\u00e1dza \u0161ok, sp\u00f4soben\u00fd i ur\u010dit\u00fdm o\u010dak\u00e1van\u00edm toho, k\u00fdm \u201cm\u00e1me by\u0165\u201d, toho, \u017ee n\u00e1m nie\u010do \u201cch\u00fdba\u201c, \u017ee sme \u201cnespr\u00e1vne\u201d pohlavie a podobne&#8230;\u201c<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p id=\"viewer-8ks95\">Sp\u00f4sob, ak\u00fdm sa d\u00f4sledky z r\u00f4znych o\u010dak\u00e1van\u00ed potom odohr\u00e1vaj\u00fa v na\u0161ich \u017eivotoch, z\u00e1vis\u00ed od nespo\u010detn\u00fdch faktorov. \u201eDobrou spr\u00e1vou je, \u017ee sa daj\u00fa umiestni\u0165 do spr\u00e1vneho kontextu,\u201c dod\u00e1va Jullian, \u201eje to v\u0161etko v poriadku, tak ako m\u00e1 by\u0165. V\u0161eobecn\u00fdm spolo\u010dn\u00fdm cie\u013eom je na\u0161e oslobodenie sa od opakuj\u00faceho sa utrpenia uvedomen\u00edm si a akceptovan\u00edm toho, \u010do bolo.\u201c<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p id=\"viewer-3ioq4\">Maj\u00fa tieto zmeny dlh\u0161ie trvanie? P\u00fdtate sa. D\u00e1 sa tvrdi\u0165, \u017ee niektor\u00e9 terapie d\u00e1vaj\u00fa \u013eu\u010fom k\u013e\u00fa\u010d k objaveniu a uvedomeniu si toho, \u010do zmenilo ich syst\u00e9m hodn\u00f4t &#8211; ale poskytne t\u00e1to, \u010di ak\u00e1ko\u013evek terapia aj nejak\u00e9 u\u017eito\u010dn\u00e9 n\u00e1stroje \u010di rady, ktor\u00e9 m\u00f4\u017eu potom \u013eu\u010fom vo svojom ka\u017edodennom \u017eivote pom\u00f4c\u0165?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p id=\"viewer-end0c\">Nie je to ako odhali\u0165 sa a\u017e na ko\u017eu &#8230;odhali\u0165 skuto\u010dnosti, ktor\u00e9 pod\u013ea slov pragmatick\u00fdch \u013eud\u00ed maj\u00fa osta\u0165 jednoducho utajen\u00e9 a netreba sa v nich \u201er\u00fdpa\u0165\u201c?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p id=\"viewer-cu77q\">\u201eDomnievam sa, \u017ee zmena mus\u00ed poch\u00e1dza\u0165 zvn\u00fatra ka\u017ed\u00e9ho \u010dloveka a sebesta\u010dnos\u0165 nie je nie\u010do, \u010do m\u00f4\u017eem niekomu nadiktova\u0165 alebo udeli\u0165. V\u0161etci sa mus\u00edme spoji\u0165 so svoj\u00edm vn\u00fatorn\u00fdm veden\u00edm a nau\u010di\u0165 sa mu d\u00f4verova\u0165, za\u010da\u0165 sa na\u0148 spolieha\u0165. Kurzy narodenia s\u00fa v podstate kurzy vedenia,\u201c mysl\u00ed si Jullian a dod\u00e1va s \u00fasmevom: \u201eVer\u00edm v z\u00e1zraky, ale \u201ez\u00e1zraky tvrdej prace\u201d s\u00fa tie najtrvalej\u0161ie.\u201c<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Nevedela som, \u010do m\u00e1m \u010daka\u0165, no n\u00e1zov trojdenn\u00e9ho transforma\u010dno-integra\u010dn\u00e9ho procesu zaujal. Presk\u00faman\u00edm prvotn\u00fdch otiskov odch\u00e1dzame s nov\u00fdm poh\u013eadom na to, \u010do sa vlastne vtedy stalo. 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